A lot of men think that they fail in attracting females because ladies pre-judge them, commonly cruelly and brutally, making their possibilities of a successful meeting, extremely slim.
But in reality, a lot of guys fail because of the way they see themselves. Yes, women will judge you based on your look and how you present yourself. But commonly, how you appear to females and how you present yourself in public just mirrors your own perception of yourself. Therefore, before ladies can evaluate you, you have evaluated yourself first.
So, the question really is, are you providing yourself the best opportunities for attracting ladies with the way that you are judging yourself? Here are just 3 of the numerous methods you might be unsuspectingly sabotaging your opportunities at making the best impression on the women you wish to meet:
1. You believe you are not appealing enough
We all understand that looks are very important when it comes to drawing in ladies. However, what’s more, crucial is how you present yourself. You can be handsome, however if you think about yourself as average looking, then that’s how women will perceive you. Think of the opposite scenario. If you are average looking, but you perceive yourself as good-looking, recognized and that you appeal to the ladies, then the ladies are most likely to find you more appealing than your objective attractiveness level.
What does this indicate? It means you should do what it takes to consider yourself as sexy and attractive. You do this by making sure your hair is styled in the current trends; you use good clothing that fit well and follows the current styles. Ensure your shoes polished and clean, your nails trimmed, and that you smell fresh. If you are confident in how your present yourself, it will reveal the way you carry yourself.
2. You believe you are not rich enough
If you believe you are not rich enough to meet attractive ladies, it’s most likely that you’ll stay away from them and choose “typical” and even “below average” women. It’s also likely that you’ll resent the “above average” women for looking down on you. If you think this way, then you are damaging your path to success with beautiful ladies, and that’s because there’s nothing further from the truth.
Women do not care how much money you have in your account unless you give them a reason to. Why do you think women find up-and-coming artists hot? Of course, it helps that they are “up-and-coming” artists and not “broke” artists. Note the distinction? Both of them might be destitute at the moment, but the very first group gets the ladies because of how they perceive themselves.
Like anything else, if you don’t see your current absence of resources as a barrier, it will not be. After all, wealth is momentary, whereas your character who you are as an individual – is long-term.
3. You think stunning ladies are out your league
A sure way, to fail at meeting stunning ladies, is to think that stunning women are out your league! Trust me, if you think like this, no plan or technique will work.
At first, it could be difficult to get rid of this manner of thinking. Men have been conditioned to believe that they are not the kind of guy that naturally gets the attention of incredibly hot ladies. But why not? Why should beautiful women not succumb to you?
Every man has the prospective to be the type of man that brings in cover girls. It’s simply that not everybody understands how to do this. With you reading this post, you are certainly at an advantage compared to other men.