Tag Archives: Marriage

21Feb/19
a pair of golden rings

Ways to Deal With Gamophobia

The term gamophobia refers to a state where the psychology of a person prevents that person from getting into a serious relationship or commitment, even with someone that the person loves deeply. In short, the phobia illustrates the significant drawbacks that a person tends to show after their partner indicate that they want a more serious relationship. The reasons vary, with personal past experience still being the number one cause. While some people assume that this phobia only happens to those who are in an open relationship with different people at the same time, it is not always the case.

Those who are in a seemingly happy relationship can also be the example of how this phobia has quite a wide extent that people under the category of relationship goals can also be the victim. For this reason, ways to deal with the situation is badly necessary. However, one thing to note is that this article only works for those who want to fix the issue. Things are quite a different story for those who highly worship their freedom.

Marriage Does Not Change Anything

a couple dressed in blackThe first fact that those who have the phobia need to accept is that nothing really changes after marriage. Those living in a fear that commitment will kill their freedom need to understand that the only thing that will change is the last name and probably a few other things. Remember that a marriage is supposed to be full of compromises, and dialogues are urgent in coming up with the best idea of being together.

Especially for career women thinking that they can no longer enjoy their job after marriage, things are not as scary as it looks. What they need to do is to find a husband who understands that they also have another life outside the roof where they live together.

More Happily Married Couples

The second fact that people need to understand is that love does exist, and there have been quite many examples of happily married couples. People say that they grow out of an experience, and surrounding themselves with happily married couples can gradually change their perception about commitment.

Understanding the Past

No other ways are more effective than addressing the root of the problems. This way, people can finally understand the underlying reason behind their sentiment towards commitment and can work on it. One problem with it is that not all people know how to track down the root of their phobia. For cases like this, professional help is necessary.

22Dec/14
A man proposing a woman

The Perfect Proposal

All too often we hear stories from friends of wedding proposals turned sour. If you are seriously deciding to propose to your partner, this is of essential significance to you.

How many times have we heard a similar situations? John A man on his knee proposingpreparing to propose to his sweetheart of several years, he chose the perfect location, ideal time, ideal conditions, even the best ring! When he popped the magic question “Will you marry me?”, The reply was “um, perhaps. I’m not ready for this yet” and after that she walks out, perhaps even out of his life for life! John was heartbroken, and his relationship just went downhill from there, ending in an ugly break up.

Proposing correctly might be the make and break of your future relationship with your partner. If done correctly, it could win the approval not just of her, but her parents, close friends, as well as her peers! Now what is the key that men all too commonly fail to consider prior to preparing that ‘best’ proposal?

the proposal movie posterJust, the proposal of your dreams is not the proposal of her dreams. What may be best for you may not exactly be the method that she has envisioned the prince of her dreams to be popping the question to her. The distinction is, you might have been thinking about your proposal for the last couple of months, but she has been dreaming about it her whole life. Regrettably the fact is, any deviation from her fantasy proposal will just place negative points on your relationship.

Equipping yourself with this understanding is merely the primary step to getting her to say YES when you really do come down to asking the question.

You must first find out what she has in mind. There is no easy way to do this but over the time of your courtship you must gather information. This is a job that requires master tactics. And then the idea is you should never forget what she wants. Many girls will tell you how they want to be proposed to but you must listens well as it will come in small portions. Take note of what your fiance tells you and use those tips to prepare for the best proposal ever.

22Dec/14
gold ring

Marriage and Equality

Have you been faced by friends, family, colleagues or others seeking your views on the so-called marital relationship equality or same-sex marriage problem? This post provides outstanding talking points and responses to those questions and gives you confidence when addressing the problem in general.

A couple holding hands on beachAfter studying this controversy for several months, investigating the various ramifications of so-called ‘gay marital relationship’, checking out numerous books, and speaking with numerous specialists on the topic I have actually come to the conclusion that it’s a concept whose time has actually come. I have actually discovered a variety of interesting peripheral problems surrounding the main topic, such as the number of rights included, who the opposition is (not who you might think), and why this concern seems to be handling a life of its own in the marketplace.

I’ve also seen how civil marital relationship equality, has the perspective to redefine conventional marital relationship in a good way. It does this by concentrating an extreme light on the institution of the marital relationship, and just why it is we human beings are so cussedly connected to it.

Meaning: What is a civil marital relationship?

male dolls on a cakeYou might find that when you mention civil marital relationship equality, people won’t know what you are talking about. Whereas, if you say ‘gay marriage‘, or ‘same-sex marital relationship’ they instantly comprehend the issue and its definition. Commonly, at least if they’re wary, or lack understanding of the issue, people will psychologically close down, or change the subject altogether. When those of us who comprehend and promote the issue make use of the term civil marriage, we’re not evading the issue out of a sense of unease or a lack of conviction. On the contrary, we utilize the term advisedly, because it’s what we suggest. It’s equality in the accessibility of access to civil marriage. Why the exacting description? There’s a good need to be extremely certain when specifying the regards to this debate.

In conclusion, all marriages whether straight, gay or lesbian should have equality. No one can truly explain what makes people fall in love so therefore it is not up to people to judge but accept each others preferences.